How does one succeed in life?
12.06.2025 05:09
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
I gave him everything. He said he loved me. Why?
Losing 20kg is a goal.
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
What did Rama tell Sita about Kaliyug?
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
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Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
How do flat Earthers explain the existence of other spherical planets?
Living to your full potential is a goal.
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
That's it for today.
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Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
Is there a possibility that we are living in a simulation and that there is a concept of rebirth?
Do not set goals—set systems.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
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First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
Procrastinates a lot.
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
Why won't Canada build their own fighter jet?
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
Making more friends is a goal.
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Can you name a female actress who has had bad timing or luck in her film career?
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
What I need from you?
Does not procrastinate.
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
Hangs out with loser friends.
Ask yourself:
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.